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Work with me

Three ways in. One root.

Whether you want a first look at your pattern, private 1:1 work, or a few days away to go deeper, every path starts in the same place: seeing what's been happening underneath.

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Free quiz

Which love pattern are you living in?

Nine quick questions. You'll start to see what's been going on, where it comes from, and what it's been costing you.

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1:1 program · 6 weeks

Rooted in Love

Six weeks of private work with me, for women who keep finding themselves in the same dynamic, no matter how different the person seems at the start.

  1. R

    Recognize

    We name your pattern: the way you attach, and the way you give and give.

  2. O

    Origin

    We find the belief underneath it, and where it began.

  3. O

    Own

    You learn to catch the pull to please, before you act on it.

  4. T

    Transform

    You stop trying to earn love and start feeling secure in it.

  5. S

    Sustain

    Boundaries and discernment, so it stays with you long after our six weeks.

Retreat · Tulum, Mexico · March 2027

For the women who've done the work, a few days to go deeper.

A small, private retreat for women who have completed Rooted in Love, with an optional psilocybin ceremony guided by experienced facilitators.

A real story

“Once she saw the pattern, she chose a partner in a new way. Months later, she met the man she's now engaged to.”

When Kristin came to me, she couldn't understand why her relationships weren't working. She didn't know how to set boundaries, and she was afraid to ask for anything.

As we worked together, we found where it began. Growing up, she had learned not to ask for too much from her dad. And without realizing it, she had been looking for his love in every partner since.

Once she saw the pattern, we worked on doing it differently: how to recognize what she needed, how to ask for it without guilt, and how to choose a partner in a new way, not the way she always had.

Kristin's story

Your next step

Different person, same story? Let's look at why.

In a free 60-minute call, we'll name the pattern you've been living inside, where it started, and what it would take to change it. No pressure, no script.