This Is My Story
I was always drawn to men who needed fixing, who I could help and support. I believed that if I just tried hard enough, I could make the relationship work.
I had a profound realization: I was not loving myself enough. I was settling for less than I deserved in my relationships because I didn't believe I was worthy of anything more.
Since then, I have made a commitment to love myself fully and completely, and to help other women do the same.
I know firsthand how difficult it can be to break free from toxic patterns and beliefs, but I also know that it is possible.
My website is dedicated to providing resources and support for women who are struggling in toxic relationships, who are afraid of being alone, and who are ready to heal and create a life they truly love.
I found the root cause during a profound and transformative experience, and all this is linked to my family history.
I came from a very dysfunctional home where my father abandoned me when I was a baby and my stepdad was emotionally absent and, when he was around, he was frequently violent, my emotional needs were never met from him and every interaction with him was filled with anger, disappointment and guilt. Growing up with four sisters and experiencing my parents’ traumatic divorce made it even more challenging.
As a result, I created a story for myself where I was telling that I needed to do things in order to be loved and be worthy, just like my mom did. I responded to emotionally unavailable men who I believed I could change through love, just as I had tried to do with my dad, I thought I could help them love me.
I became an over-giver in relationships because I was always wanting to create a peaceful space in order to feel safe from the chaos as I did at home, also my abandonment wound make me do anything to be loved so I was always putting myself last.
After this, I saw the light...
It is possible to experience true love! I promise! Once you heal you can see with more clarity the patterns, you can change them and without making a lot of efforts you will attract a divine, sacred love, your soulmate.
I allowed Remi, my Soulmate, into my life. And let me tell you, it’s been the most amazing relationship I’ve ever had.
Everything is easy and flowing. After a disagreement, our relationship becomes stronger as we aligned on what we want. I can express myself freely and with vulnerability and he holds space for me. There is no insecurity or doubts. We are completely honest with each other. I can be myself and feel loved for that, nothing else.
I released the heavy burden of the doing part. I only need to be myself. He is supporting in every way and I don’t feel burned out or overlooked by life. I am a priority in his life and I don’t need to ask for that.